Being weird is fine

 Listen. ITS FINE TO BE WEIRD. You don’t have to change. You don’t have to bend over backwards trying to underthink. You think: think well. You need to touch things and not touch things to balance out your nervous system, central and peripheral. You cry out to others because you need someone there in your heart. Witness yourself.

You are not in fact weird, you are always in good company. 

And sure you may not dance the most poetic dance that we are all supposed to know. That isn’t your failure. 

But if you see that you are out of sync you are not wrong. You correctly assess yourself. If you want to change it so you can dance with others, know that this is possible. 

Finding rhythm starts with restoring the internal rhythm. We find the internal rhythm and then we match it to the external rhythm and that is how we flow along with others, freed of the burden of ourselves lumbering along alone. 

Your coping tactics are not your enemy. You are not your enemy. Your body is searching for itself. It will stop once it finds it.  

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